Key Dimensions of
Compatibility: Core Traits
A key
element to the success of eHarmony is that it is the only
relationship website that uses scientifically proven attributes
to predict long-term, positive relationships.
Called “Our Key Dimensions”, eHarmony has classified these
attributes into two groups, Core Traits and Vital Attributes.
Essentially, Core Traits are those things that can define who
you are and they generally do not change during your adulthood.
One Core
Trait is called Emotional Temperament. It can be summarized by
asking yourself how you feel about yourself and the world.
There tend to be emotional patterns we have as human beings
which can determine how you are perceived by others. Of the 29
Dimensions, the following are part of the Emotional Temperament
category: Self Concept, Emotional Status, Energy: Emotional,
Obstreperousness and Passion: Romantic.
Another
Core Trait is called Social Style. This facet of the
online dating service
determines how you relate to other people. IS it company that
you prefer to being alone, or are you a leader versus a
follower? Your feelings on these topics help to determine
compatibility with others. The parts of the 29 Dimensions that
determine your Social Style are: Character, Kindness,
Dominance, Sociability, Autonomy, and
Adaptability.
A third
component of Core Traits includes the Cognitive Mode, or ways
in which you think about the world, as well as how you cope
with the world. It also determines ways in which you are
motivated, such as curiosity. The specific elements are
Intellect, Curiosity, Humor, and Artistic
Passion.
Lastly,
the element of Physicality comes into play when determining
one’s core traits. In other words, how do you interact
physically with the world? With yourself? There are feelings
and thoughts associated with your physical life that determines
who you are. Specifically, the components include: Energy:
Physical, Passion: Sexual, Vitality, Security, Industry, and
Appearance.
All of
these detailed arrangements comprise who you are, and
eHarmony’s goal is to take each of your many varied
characteristics and match them successfully to those who are
most compatible with you. This method reaches far beyond a
simple questionnaire. It gets to the heart of who you are as a
person.
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